I know why you are reading this article. Right now you feel like an emotional mess. You have just recently broken up with your girlfriend and want her back. No matter the reason’s why she left and ended the relationship, there is a chance for you to get your ex girlfriend back. The answer to your situation is, psychology.
Psychological method’s used in the right way will empower you to get what you want.
The ultimate goal is to get your girlfriend back and in 80% of all breakups, that will happen. Right now believe it or not, psychology is being used on you by your ex.
Phone calls she won’t take, going out of her way to ignore you when you turn up to places you know she will be. You need to stop this type of contact right now.. The more you empower her the more she will use the same psychological method’s against you.
Stop all communications, unless you have children involved in the ex relationship. If you need to make contact for any reason do not pester her for reasons why she broke up with you.
The more emotional you are about the split and the more pestering questions you ask her, only gives her the feeling that she is in total control to have you back at the click of her fingers. Don’t give her this power and help her heal from the breakup by giving her the upper hand.
Making contact with her for the sake of just wanting to hear her voice and demand answers to why she gave up on the relationship will not help you one dam bit.
Constantly sounding needy, begging for one last chance to get your ex girlfriend back, or trying to burden guilt on to your ex girlfriends shoulders will only make her want to hide herself away.
Nobody wants to be around a needy person, especially as she will be recalling memories from the relationship herself and missing you just as much.
None or little contact will make her feel just as alone and wondering what you are doing, just the same as you are wondering what she is doing with herself while you are apart from each other.
When the cat’s away the mouse will play:
This is the next step to taking it to the next level. Jealousy can go a long way to getting your ex girlfriend back. There are a few sneaky ways to use these techniques and should only be used as a last resort if the advice I have already given you is not working out for you.